rant 1, 5/6/21: people are way too fucking forgiving on this site, jesus christ. be a little more thick-skinned (funny coming from me, i know).
also, a different thing, i find it so hilarious that people are forgiving people when they have no say in whether or not they should be forgiven in the first place. basically, if you weren't a part of the situation, you don't get to say "i forgive you". fuck off.
also, if you are willingly becoming friends again with that person KNOWING what they did, then that is on you. don't be surprised if the victim never fucking talks to you again, because clearly you made your stance clear.
sorry for the rant, but i see this stuff happening all the time, even with some of my own fucking friends. i just needed to talk about this somewhere.
rant 2, 5/7/21: LMAO if you bullied people in middle school for having kin lists in middle school and now have a kin list, fuck you! you are so annoying!
similar thing with being gay in middle school, i was bullied for being gay in middle school and now those same people are coming out as gay and acting like they have the universal lgbt experience and even try to use their voices for the whole community (as if they weren't just fucking calling me a d/ke and a f/g like not even 2 years ago for holding the same sex's hand on the playground). you can't just expect forgiveness from the people you bullied for being gay just because you're gay. that's not how it works. they either forgive you or they don't, but don't expect them to like you now and get pissy when they don't.
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